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  • Writer's pictureLorraine Mikaelson

Why We Shouldn’t Depend Too Much On Our Partners



Being in love with someone is a great feeling. You get to experience a lot of things and I really think it makes life worthwhile. Before I got into a relationship with my amazing husband, I always feel alone and I really thought that I would not end up with someone who truly cares for me. When I got into a relationship with him, everything started to change. I was starting to enjoy my life now that he is with me. It was amazing how a relationship could be so fun. He was my first boyfriend so I didn’t really know a lot of things but now that we have been together, it is amazing to be with them. However, you should never depend on your pair too much because we don’t know what will happen in the future. Here are some of the reasons why we shouldn’t depend too much on our pairs.


They might change their feelings.

Feelings change a lot nowadays because of how easy it is to find love using online dating sites and we also have technology where it allows us to communicate to people from other countries. We shouldn’t depend too much on them because their feelings of love for us might be replaced with feelings of boredom and hatred. They might try to find someone else who can make them happy because we aren’t doing it anymore. They just feel bored when they are with us.


They might break up with us.

Break up is always part of every romance and you might think that you have a perfect romance with the person you love and you think that you will be together for a long time, but you might break up one day and you have depended so much on them. If this happens, you wouldn’t know how to function properly because you have put your life in the hands of your pair who now broke up with you because they found someone else. It will just hurt you so much so never depend on them too much.


They might die early.

Dying is inevitable, people die every day and who knows that maybe this day is our last day that’s why we should cherish each day and be thankful that we are still alive, ready to make new memories with our pair. If you depend on your pair too much that it feels like you cannot live without them, imagine what will happen to you if they die early. Do not depend on someone too much because we never know what might happen.


They might work far away from us.

Long distance romances are very common now, some people would go to other countries to work and if you have gotten used to your pair just being with you all the time, whenever they work far away from you, you would be devastated and you wouldn’t know how to act on your own because you have depended so much on them. If you want to have an unforgettable night with your partner, you can read this article to know what retro films to watch. https://www.bloglovin.com/@davidelmers/top-retro-films-for-an-unforgettable-night




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