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Why We Hurt The Ones We Love

Writer's picture: Lorraine MikaelsonLorraine Mikaelson


Betrayal in a relationship is very painful. You think that you will have a happy relationship but it would turn out that your partner doesn’t really love you. It hurts to be in this kind of situation where you trusted someone to take care of your heart but they would be the one to hurt you instead. I have known many of my friends who were betrayed by their partners and watching them cry over that person just hurts me so much. I cannot even begin to imagine the pain they have felt. I do not really understand how a person could be so heartless and hurt the person who loved them so much. It is just so unimaginable how people are like that so I have taken my time to gather some reasons as to why people would hurt their partners.

They don’t really love you.

Love is very important when you are in a relationship but without it, the relationship just wouldn’t work. There are times where your partner betrayed you and your relationship because maybe, right from the start of your relationship, they don’t really have any feelings for you. They don’t really love you and they might have other motives as to why they were in a relationship with you. People in this generation have a lot of motives when they become romantically involved with someone. You have to be careful about who you date to avoid being hurt. If you are ready to look for a new love, you can read this article to meet dog lovers. https://dogsbestlife.com/dog-fun/meet-dog-lovers/

They think that they deserved more.

There are some people who would hurt their partners because they think that they deserve much more than what they have. Like if you and your partner came from a poor family and you havd worked together to make yourselves be better and richer. But because of this, because now that you are rich, your partner will tend to want more, they will want a person more than you and this is why they would hurt you even though you were there during the time where he didn’t have a lot.

They have gotten what they wanted already.

Usually, people would hurt their partners maybe because they have gotten what they wanted already from you. Like if your partner has a low self-esteem but because of you they regained ait back and they are now so confident. Since they are now confident, they felt that you weren’t needed anymore that is why they would hurt you and leave you all alone.

They are just using you.

Sometimes, people are just so horrible that they don’t care about what you might feel about their actions and they don’t care about what will happen to you after. Because of this, they might just be in a relationship with you because they are using you to get what they want. Some people who are cruel enough would do this to their partners without remorse and because of that, betraying is very easy to them. Once they have achieved their goal from being in a relationship with you, they will leave you alone.


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