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Why Smart People Fall For Wrong People

Writer: Lorraine MikaelsonLorraine Mikaelson


There are so many people in this world and each of us has our own attributes. Some people are creative, some people are musically inclined and there are some who are smart. Smart people are those people who get perfect scores during the exams, they are the ones who study a lot when there is an upcoming test and they are the ones who can answer each question of your professor. We get really amazed by people who are smart because we think that they know more about us but in reality, they just work harder than anyone else. However, smart people actually have difficulty when it comes to love. They sometimes fall for the wrong person. You might be wondering why they would fall for the wrong person when they are so smart. Well, here are some of the reasons why.


They sometimes would use logic instead of listening to their emotions.

There are so many smart people who are very logical, they are very practical and very reliant on the things that they can comprehend but with love, sometimes it defies logic, sometimes it is beyond what humans can understand but that is the thing about love, you don’t have to understand it, you don’t have to dwell on it, you just have to feel it and this might be the reason why smart people have difficulty when it comes to love. They might find it difficult to listen to their emotions because they don’t usually do that. They don’t let their emotions get in the way which is why when they are in a romance, it might be difficult for them to understand their partners emotions.


They use their brain more than their heart.

Smart people are known to use their brain more than anything. This is what they use when they are studying or when they are memorizing a very important mathematical formula. But when it comes to love, we don’t actually use our brains a lot, we let our hearts feel what the right thing to do is. Our heart would tell us how we should deal with our partners, how we should make them happy. Since smart people usually use their brains in most occasions, they wouldn’t use their heart when they are in a romance which is why it might be a little difficult for them to love.


They tend to rely on their knowledge rather than their instincts.

Smart people know a lot because they always read something, their brains are full of useful information that they have retained over the years and it is actually great. However, when they are in a romance, that knowledge wouldn’t be as much useful as before. From here on, you would have to rely on your instincts, you would have to feel your partner, be able to form a bond with them and understand them based on their hidden feelings. It might be difficult for smart people to assess their partners because they would rely on the data but in love, there is no data, there’s only the bond that you and your partner have formed. Cupid can sometimes play a great role when it comes to finding love and even smart people can’t resist.

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