Having feelings for someone is normal and almost all of us have crushes for someone which is why when you are friends with someone and then you catch feels for them, it is normal. There are so many people who feels something towards their closest friends or to someone they just saw on the Internet. In some point of my life, I also got attracted to someone from the Internet, I fell in love with them which is why whatever you may be feeling right now, you are not alone in it. However, there are times where we cannot act upon what we feel towards that person. There are so many things that could prevent us from doing so and you may think that you should just give up, you should think carefully before giving up. Here are some instances that prevents us from acting upon what we feel.
They are already taken.
We cannot act upon our feelings for someone because they are already taken. We really cannot do anything about what we feel for them because when we decide to act upon it, it would seem as if we are trying to destroy their romance. Because of this, we just keep our feelings inside us and we try to hide it because we don’t want to be the reason why they would break up with their pair. Even though we have feelings for them, we still care about them. I just read this article about giving the person you love a crypto as a gift. Here is how you can do it.
We have trust issues.
Trust issues can be a big obstacle when it comes to expressing our feelings to the person we like. There are time where we won’t be able to tell them about how we feel about them because we have trust issues. We are afraid that they might just betray us and we would end up with nothing and losing everything. We may have been in this kind of situation before which is why no matter how much we like them, we cannot express it fully.
They don’t seem the faithful type.
When we like have feelings for someone, we always wanted to express it so that we can be together, however there are times that we hesitate to express our feelings to them because they don’t seem to be the faithful type. We would hesitate to be with them because they might just cheat on us and we don’t want it to happen to us. Because of this, even though we strongly feel for them, we wouldn’t be able to express what we feel to them.
We are afraid of getting hurt.
Sometimes, we even have feelings for someone but we can’t express it to them because we are afraid of getting hurt. We are afraid that we might just end up with a broken heart after all these which is why we don’t risk it and we just keep our feelings to ourselves. We try to hide what we really feel for them since we are afraid of taking the risk and getting hurt.
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